i felt intimidated too and had a hard time playing this game the first time. Stuff that might help:
-the fandom wiki is actually really good if you need to look up what something does
-you can see what your pawns are going to fight like under profile on the status screen. Primary inclination and secondary. there are more in-depth guides on how to futz with this that i won’t get into (and spacetown has a good post on it itt), but just make sure that “guardian” isn’t one of them because it makes your pawns useless. If you find them clustering up near you and not doing anything that’s why
For my money “utilitarian” (fight based on monster weaknesses) and “challenger” (take out ranged fighters first) are the best ones to have
-monsters don’t scale and there are some nasty beef gates you can run into early on. Watch out for bandits in particular. If you’re not doing any damage just run, you can outrun anything and your pawns will eventually teleport to catch up with you.
-big monsters have weak points where hitting them can do extra damage, stun them, knock them down, etc. all the monsters in this game actually have really cool and varied behaviors, it can be hard to notice in all the chaos sometimes
-it’s a good idea to at least get to the main city early on before you explore a lot, because you can start swapping classes and using warp stones.
-goblins fear fire
-wolves travel in packs
-strength in numbers, arisen