I’m sorry for picking apart the post arbitrarily. That said, I was more concerned about relevancy considering I literally have no picture of this person in question, and “having a hard time” could be a huge range of shit.
Like, no shit it’s hard to be trans. The response was to OP saying “these problems” with the only problem listed being “presenting feminine”. That comment alone gave me the impression of “my friend is broken, help me fix them”, and clearly more than one person was irked by it, so the hostility isn’t necessary. I’m not trying to tone police here, it’s just genuinely vague.